50 Deep Questions That Will Make You And Your Partner Closer

I’ve always been a fan of communication—I mean it’s the key to a healthy relationship. Sometimes it’s good to spice things up by playing games, or engaging in healthy conversations. Oh! How much I love games especially when I play with my man, or friends I’m comfortable being around.

Asking the right question at the right time can help you realize things you didn’t know, and can also improve your relationships. Without much ado, below are questions you can ask your partner to know and understand each other better - and to be honest, these questions will also help you appreciate them. 




1. What were your first thoughts about me the first time you saw me?


2. Who is more loving between us?

3. Do you think I’m your soulmate? If yes, why?


4. What is our funniest memory together?


5. What is our best memory together? 

6. If we break up tomorrow, what will you miss the most about me, and about us?


7. Does love scare you? If yes, what about it scares you?


8. How much do you value me?


9. Do you have any rule for yourself that you’ll never break?


10. What loving thing do I do that you like the most?


11. What do you dream about when it comes to our future?


12. What have you always wanted to ask me?


13. If I had to move to another country, would you be willing to wait, or would we break up?


14. Do you believe in “people are meant to be?”


15. Do you believe in soulmates?


16. Have you been open with me as a partner?


17. What physical aspect of me do you love most?


18. Do you have a favorite hangout spot for us?


19. What do you want to do with me that we’ve never tried together?


20. Do you like adventures?


21. Why did you fall in love with me?


22. Did you think our relationship will last when we started?


23. Do you wann’ have kids?


24. What is the most important value you’ll teach our kids?


25. What’s something you enjoy doing that you never get tired of?


26. Is there anything about your past that you’re ashamed of?


27. What is your greatest fear?


28. Do you like to be alone? What do you like to do when you’re alone?


29. Do you think you’re a spiritual person?


30. What does love mean to you?


31. Have you ever broken someone’s heart?


32. What achievement in your life are you most proud of?


33. What kind of gifts do you like?


34. What do you spend your money on the most?


35. Who is the sweeter person between us?


36. Who spends the most money between us?


37. Do I give you peace?


38. Do you think the universe has a purpose, or it’s meaningless to you? (If you believe in the universe, then you both should discuss this)


39. Do you believe in marriage?


40. Would you rather be loved or love?


41. Are you more of a receiver than a giver?


42. What does beauty mean to you?


43. What does happiness mean to you?


44. Do I make you happy?


45. If you could ask me one question, and I have to answer truthfully, what would it be?


46. Do you have a favorite memory of us?


47. Do you think it’s important to be a nice person to everyone, or only to your close ones?


48. Who are the people you can trust your life with?


49. What is your favorite thing about yourself?


50. Is there anyone you simply don’t respect?

Ask your partner some or all of these questions, and you’ll discover things you never knew about yourselves. 

I hope you have fun while at it.. xo

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